This past weekend I was suppose to have my 5 year old nephew with me. We had big plans, but my buddy was running a low grade fever and couldn’t make it. Needless to say, we both were disappointed. I love that little guy. I’ve never seen such a happy kid, and he’s constantly making me laugh. Ladies, beware he’s a big flirt too. He’s constantly telling the ladies that he loves their pretty red lips. Did I mention that he’s my Tyger buddy too. In fact every time I’ve taken him to a LSU game, we’ve won. He’ll tell you real quick that Coach Miles is his friend. ![]()
My mom says that he reminds her of me when I was that age, especially when we ask him to do something he doesn’t want to do. I don’t remember ever doing this
, but when we ask Connor to do something that he doesn’t want to he looks at us with this sad face (lips poked out), shaking his head and with a childlike voice says, “I don’t wanna.”
When it comes to growing and maturing in our faith, God will ask us to do things that are uncomfortable and difficult. I just wonder how many times we respond with “I don’t wanna”? God doesn’t demand our obedience because He wants to control, manipulate, and deprive us of things. He knows that obedience doesn’t bring restriction, it brings freedom. Being a follower of Christ is not about keeping a bunch of rituals or rules, it’s about becoming alive. He knows that on the other side of that decision to forgive lies freedom, restoration, and wholeness. When we choose to die to our flesh so that others can move forward and Christ can be exalted; our spirit man comes alive and intimacy with God deepens. Our response to His call will affect not just us but EVERY relationship that we are connected to. As we say yes to Him and no to ourselves (it’s not about being right), we move closer to Him and our relationships begin to flourish. When we tell God, “I don’t wanna”, what we’re really saying is that we are content with where we are and have no need to move forward, or to be free.
Being free means that I must I die to my bitterness, my resentment, and my “being right”. I’m afraid that in American Christianity, Jesus is the only one doing the dying. A.W. Tozer said it this way, “Among the plastic saints of our times, Jesus has to do all the dying, and all we want to hear is another sermon
about his dying.” God is not listening to our excuses. He just wants us to act on what He’s already spoken to us. Christine Cain, from Hillsong Church in Australia said it this way, “You cannot afford to REASON with what God has called you to do. You will rationalize yourself out of it. You simply have to step out of the boat and DO IT!! We have to move from “I don’t wanna” to “I’ll do whatever.”
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